Should I invite these asians to my party? - the beauty of the game vietnamese
REPOST ==== I just think that in this section more than beauty and style ...
Party Information:
"A group of 20-30, the friends of the school and outside school (15-19 years)
- Evening dress / semi-formal (like a dance, but the connection with a suit and tie are optional)
"I am the host (all costs are added together)
- Cause to celebrate: the end of the school year a good
-10 Clock can pour out a club for young people / bar, alcohol, when adult supervision, sometimes I have friends who come to my party are 18 years .. (my friends in the Rotary Interact)
"About 12 at night to come home, enjoy a drink while swimming or playing and playing, then all will be Sleepover
Why am planning now:
Because of the advance registration is required for this bar is never empty becauseSummer.
My question is:
I invite the Asians (Vietnamese, Filipinos, Chinese, etc.) to my party?
My reason not to:
1 No, I'm comfortable with them because I think they have not amuses me .... I think they are only useful for the culture of political parties and most people are white
2 No, I'm really friendly with them, but sometimes speaks
Awkward 3 times
My reason to ask:
1I do not want to be perceived as racist or elitist
2Well, I know .....
I ask because I am now very confused ...
Uhmm but almost nobody talks about these people in Asia ...
and I have been involved in one word, the struggle between the Viet-guand he thought I was beating his girlfriend in Asia .. AHHH!
Private school btw ..
Friday, February 19, 2010
The Beauty Of The Game Vietnamese Should I Invite These Asians To My Party?
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It seems a lot of tension and the denial of his words. How do you not only with their feelings towards these people, but the feelings and impressions of his friends. What do y'all kind of conversations (you and) your friends have on them? His "these people in Asia," feels a little hostile.
ReplyDeleteIf your main concern, as it is perceived, rather than a genuine effort to open and expand to themselves not to load. If you are really ready to open, start with a little entertainment and other communications in a short period of time to an invitation to his party, some of the current growth and respectful relationship. Real not be artificial.
If you and your friends to meet and pass their discomforts not assume that other people can do that too. Maybe even better than you. But not invite that they have a social trap, where a group of immature exuberant and funky to go get drunk.
Good luck.
Peace.
They should ask themselves, because most of the exchanges between you and them seem less foreign to you and to them, which might be better to meet people and eliminate the perception of cultural differences or not? And you will be surprised that they, and enjoy another obstacle. Try to think, to see, and good for you, so hard on him.
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